Approaching & Opening

March 20, 2013

Conversation Starters For Meeting Women


Meeting women is one of the biggest challenges to guys in the dating scene. Now matter how many positive qualities you display, you must learn to approach women and engage them in a conversation. If you know great conversation starters, then you’ll instantly create an engaging discussion.

So if you’re interested in attracting the women you see, then I recommend you use the following great conversation starters.

1- Use normal approach techniques

Let me emphasis ONE thing…

Pick-up lines NEVER work!

Instead of attempting to use a canned pick up line, it’s important to use a more natural approach. In fact, it’s often better to use a direct approach to start talking to women. This means if you’re interested in a woman and want to talk to her, all you have to do is simply introduce yourself. Then you allow the discussion to unfold.

What’s funny is many guys are looking for the perfect conversation starter. However the simple truth is a great way to talk to a woman is to just use a natural approach. If you have confidence and avoid the pickup lines used by other guys, then you’ll impress her with your straightforward manner.

2- Use the cocky/funny approach

Being humorous with a touch of arrogance is my personal favorite of these great conversation starters. Specifically this approach is often called “cocky/funny”.

Made famous by seduction guru David DeAngelo, the cocky/funny technique involves approaching a woman with a slightly arrogant manner while demonstrating a funny personality which gets her to laugh. The purpose behind this technique is to give yourself higher status and make HER work for YOUR attention.

Cocky/funny is a fun way to approach a woman because you come in with high energy and instantly provide her with excitement. Then all you have to do is let the conversation evolve into sexual banter.

3- Use a complimentary comment

Great conversation starters can often be initiated by simply complimenting a woman. Unlike corny pickup lines, a nice comment is well-thought out and shows tact.

Just remember one thing. When you compliment a woman, ALWAYS focus on something instead of her looks. The goal is to start a conversation by giving a genuine compliment on something she can control like the way she dresses or her personality. By doing this, you’re demonstrating that you pay attention and you like her UNIQUE personality.

4- Use a situational conversation starter

The final way to initiate a conversation is to use a ‘situational opener’. This technique involves using specific incident as a reason to start talking to a woman. It involves seeing something interesting around you and then casually using it to parlay into a conversation with a woman.

For instance, say you witness a really drunk guy making a jerk of himself. You can use this incident to start talking to girls who are near this guy.

All four of these great conversation starters provide a wonderful way to start talking to a woman. Since each provides a natural to approach a girl, you won’t trigger her defense mechanisms like you would with a canned pick up line. Now all you have to is get out there and use them on women you’re interested in.

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